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To all of us in the Sandwich Generation, juggling the many shaded issues of the Sandwich Generation, have a blessed and peaceful Holy Week…


Have a beautiful and blessed Easter from Roseville CA Christian writer and real estate agent Kaye Swain


And enjoy a beautiful and joy-filled Easter weekend!!!



P.S. If you are babysitting grandkids this week, be sure to visit my Sandwich Generation Facebook page for some fun and handy posts with activities for young and old – perfect for all of us multigenerational caregivers. :)


Happy St Patricks Day from Kaye Swain Roseville CA REALTORCan you believe how fast the year is flying. It seems like just yesterday it was Merry Christmas and here it’s already St Patricks Day week. I wanted to let you know that I’ve made a Pinterest Board for St Patricks Day Joys full of fun green foods, delightful and easy crafts for grandkids and seniors alike, and even a cute Veggie Tales video telling the true story of Patrick, a man who loved God, and made a huge impact on our world – and NOT just creating St Patricks Day. :) There are also several fun jokes and riddles – a holiday delight and tradition for me and my grandkids as well. You’ll even find another Sesame Street video centered on Danny Boy.

Plus, if you check out my Facebook page – SandwichINK For the Sandwich Generation – I’ll have various different crafts and projects popping up there throughout the day.

And be sure to tell your friends with wee ones. Hmmmm, my real estate clients have some adorables as well that I’ll be sharing this with. St Patricks Day is definitely more fun for me when it includes wee ones. How about you?

Then again, there’s plenty of fun for all of us grownups as well, including lovely tablescapes and more. And yes, you’ll find some of those there too. PLUS:

Meme and Blog Party Fun for the Sandwich Generation


Have a blessed and beautiful St Patricks Day y’all!




Happy St Patricks Day to grandparents and grandkids everywhere from Kaye Swain Roseville REALTOR






This years oscar helped make Alzheimers DIsease a bigger priority-via Kaye Swain Roseville CA REALTORJulianne Moore won Best Actress in this year’s Oscar Awards. No, I didn’t watch the show. It’s not my cup of tea. But I DO appreciate that this year’s show and one of the movies honored at the show spread important info about Alzheimer’s Disease. Carol Marak is one of my sweet online friends, who I’ve known for years as we’ve enjoyed various teaming up through blog carnivals, eldercarechats, tweets and facebook fun, and more. And she’s written an excellent article on just this topic for all of us in the Sandwich Generation and other multigenerational caregivers. Enjoy!

The Oscars Shines Light on Alzheimer’s Disease

Sooner or later we knew it would happen. Alzheimer’s disease takes center stage, and now the public sees its effects first hand. It’s about time.

My family lived through the disease with my dad. It was seven years ago, but I remember to this day how difficult it was for my family, and how little my peers knew about the disease, especially at work. It was heartbreaking to live through the stages of Alzheimer’s with my dad. He held on tight to the past, but I knew deep down memories would soon fade. And they did. The only memories my dad had, in the end, were the ones of the farm, when he was very young. He thought I was his mother, which I was in a way. And he would ask me over and over if the cows are okay. He stressed a lot about them and would ask, “Have the cows been milked? I haven’t been able to do it for months, and I’m worried.” I would gently touch his shoulders and affirm, “Oh, I just did it dad, the cows are fine.” He’d smile, and his eyes lit up in gratitude. Sweet memories.

Now, thanks to directors Wash Westmoreland and Richard Glatzer, Still Alice comes to the forefront of America. People can experience first-hand what it does to the person living with the disease and to the family. Hopefully, Still Alice will continue to shine light and bring awareness to people. It’s so hard to live through it knowing others don’t have a clue.

Since my dad’s situation, I’ve been exposed to many people living with the disease. They are lost, as Moore suggests. Maria Shriver calls Alzheimer’s a national emergency because more women in their sixties will develop the disease, twice more often than breast cancer. And since the majority of the “exploding” boomer population are in their sixties, we face economic devastation. Source: My Brain sponsored by the Alzheimer’s Association.

Caring for a Person with Alzheimer’s

If you’re caring for a loved living with the disease, remember you’re not alone and ask for help. The Alzheimer’s Association is here for you and your loved one. Use the message board to connect with other caregivers. If you can’t afford to hire a caregiver from a home care agency, try reputable online services that vet for reliable senior care services.

Alzheimer’s Facts

At least 44 million people, worldwide, live with the dementia disease. It’s a global epidemic. In the United States alone, at least 5 million are inflicted. Do what you can do to help raise awareness and inspire action. Learn the facts. Share the numbers.

  • More than 5 million Americans are living with Alzheimer’s.
  • By 2050, this number could be as high as 16 million.
  • Every 67 seconds, someone in the United States develops the disease.
  • Almost two-thirds of Americans with Alzheimer’s are women.
  • In her 60s, a woman’s estimated lifetime risk for developing Alzheimer’s is 1 in 6. For breast cancer it is 1 in 11.
  • More than 60 percent of Alzheimer’s and dementia caregivers are women.

Carol Marak is a contributor for the senior living and healthcare market. She advocates older adults and family caregivers by writing on tough topics like chronic issues, Alzheimer’s and senior care, and senior living. Find her work at AssistedLivingFacilities.org and HomeHealthcareAgencies.com and contact Carol on LinkedIn and Carol@SeniorCareQuest.com.

Mega thanks to Carol for sharing this interesting article on Alzheimer’s Disease. It’s something so many of us in the Sandwich Generation as well as many other multigenerational caregivers may face in the years to come.



Owl toilet seat tattoos regular and elongated to put a smile on our elderly parents faces In Roseville CA and beyondI promise you, this will be 100% G-rated. :)  As a mom, grandmother, and caregiver of elderly senior parents, toilets have been a big part of my life all my life – and I bet they have been for you too. I remember sitting by the toilet all night when my grandchild got the tummy bug and threw up over and over, while all I could really do was cuddle her, whisper in her ear that it was ok, and pray lots. She got better, and is much older now, but we both still vividly remember that night. It’s one of those sweet twists of life that it was an awful night that left sweet cuddling memories in both our hearts.

This week, some of my long distance grandkids have experienced the tummy bug and I’m too far away to cuddle, but I can still pray lots, and occasionally get to talk to one on the phone to share loving encouragement as well.

It doesn’t end with the grandkids, does it? Sometimes it’s our elderly parents who need our comforting words, our gentle pats, and our prayers. No, we’re not dealing with the tummy bug – at least not this week. But we have been back on the UTI issue again. And I do want to remind all of you of how much of a negative impact this can have on our elderly parents! And I STILL always have my senior mom tested for a UTI if she isn’t feeling well – and request a culture as well as a stick. And YES, I always recommend asking your own doctor about doing the same. Better safe than sorry!  You can read all the details at:

Resource-Full News and Information for The Sandwich Generation Issues: UTIs In Our Elderly Parents

Also, we are again using a raised toilet seat which is such a big help for our elderly parents as their range of motion and mobility decreases.

Pretty in pink toilet seats have covers to make it warmer for our elderly parents at night in Placer County California and beyondOf course, toilet talk doesn’t have to be all boring. We could also add in some fun things, like the gorgeous owl toilet cover tattoo, the pink rose toilet cover tattoo I shared a while back, and this cool pink toilet seat cover to make things a bit warmer and softer – great for those chilly middle of the night trips, and a lovely way to put a smile on our elderly parents’ faces. And all of these tools are great aging in place helps!  :)

Multigenerational caregiving for kids and grandkids along with elderly senior parents isn’t always easy. But I really appreciate all the great tips and tools available to help make it at least a little bit easier – for both caree and caregiver. Don’t you?  Do you have any senior citizen or grandkid toilet tips or other aging in place ideas to share with us – here or at my Facebook page? We’d love to hear them.


Kaye Swain REALTOR in Roseville CA has Fun and so will other boomers and seniors and grandparents whether at home or out and about working at their real estate business at the Grand Social

Beverly's Got tons of cute pink things each Saturday to put a smile on the face of the Sandwich Generation dealing with the issues of caring for the elderly parents and babysitting grandchildren




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